Posts tagged control
Acting out and lashing out can help you discover yourself

Links

  • Explore the community: http://khayrab.com/community

  • The Mental Meanderings of Waseem.Space podcast - Home of the 3rd Cultured: https://waseem.space/podcasts/

  • The Diggin'It Podcast (Arabic): https://waseem.space/the-diggnit-podcast/

Discussion

  • Shoulds and how it gets us to suppress our feelings/needs

  • Examples and our experiences with acting out and lashing out

  • The right way to learn about your values, who you are, and what you should present about yourself (spoiler: there is only a right way)

Exploration

How do you lash out or act out?

What's the pattern you see?

What does it tell you about your values and what's important to you?

Receiving help as a helpful person

Teachings

  • Why it's hard to describe Visibility Ease as a helpful person

  • People-pleasing

  • Ambition-Pleasing

This Week's Assignment

  • Take note of what downside of helpfulness comes up for you this week

  • Consider how being helpful sometimes traps you in secrecy, selfishness, and disconnection with reality

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